Okay let me start by telling you that I was manager on call this weekend. Meaning that if someone didn't show up for work I would have to come in *sigh!! Im sure you know where Im going with this. Saturday morning my manager calls and says "Kelly isn't at work". SO I had to get up and come open the store until she got here. She came in right after I did so I didn't have to stay long. Well I wouldn't have had to if I didn't lock my keys in the car. Since my home phone isn't on at this time. I had to call my neighbor JJ, who then sent his son over to my house with the phone to Quis so I could tell him to please bring my spare keys *whew*. The rest of the day was pretty chill. Drank some henn and just hung out.
Sunday...I get ANOTHER call from my manager "Michelle isnt at work"...DAMMIT MAN!!! what is UP? SO I get on my way to work and start calling Michelle's cell phone. Its very annoying to me that this lil hussy's go out and get drunk and cant make it work. We don't even open till 12 on Sunday's..come on!!! you can get up by then! It's so irresponsible just to be like "oh well if I don't make it in Shelby will open the store"..ummm..I have a life too..and a child..that I don't like being away from to babysit some grown ass woman!!
I better not ever see that lil hoe. She NEVER showed up OR callled!! hopefully she is now unemployed! I do get paid for working and I get an extra $30 for being on call..but still..can I have a day off! I would get the $30 even if everyone showed up.
THE CASE OF THE MISSING VIBRATOR......
Okay..I'm not too embarrassed to tell yall that I have a vibrator..it glows in the dark and it makes me happy!!I call it "my lil homie". Anyway, "my lil homie" lives under my mattress or in my underwear drawer. Now...it has ALWAYS been in one of those places. I discovered this weekend that it was missing. I found that VERY odd!! then I thought back to what may have happened....earlier in the week I had washed my sheets n stuff, my roomate very nicely took my stuff out of the dryer and made my bed for me. I thought at the time that was very nice of her. But now..I'm thinking..did she see my lil homie..and remove him??? it couldn't be right? I mean..why would you use someones personal item like that???
I had to do some thinking before I appraoched her about this. So yesterday I asked her if she had seen it. She said No..of course I didn't expect her to say yes!! so now Im waiting to see if my lil homie shows back up!! hmmm.....then what??? do I clean it?? *sigh* Im afraid I will have to toss my lil homie! I am VERY upset about this! dammit!!!
Okay....time to get back to work....I'll holla at yall lata!...OH..WAIT ONE MINUTE!!!! I just remembered a magazine article I saw yesterday. I think its was US or Teen People..I dunno some magazine we had at work..but it was current 9/23/04! it said that USHER and ALICIA may be a new hot couple!! I won't comment yet on how I feel...but I will expect some comments from the crowd!
Friday... I have a couple things to talk about today. First, I was listening to an old Outkast CD this morning and I was inspired by something to tell my girl MsThing--From Lucious Leftfoot "fuck them boughie bitches they don't know nothing 'bout you" (I don't know if I spelled BOUGHIE right..but you know what im saying heffa) Tell them e-link haters! Sunshine - No Shelly and Nycoma didn't get married! of course, I saw that coming!! their relationship is a mess!! but, you know Shelly..she is ride or die. She aint gonna leave NOBODY when she got 5 kids running around the house!! she is MsDomestic! I love the girl to death..but just like bridgett and Danille (and probably Kim too) she is STUCK! Don't get the wrong idea about me speaking about my friends. Nothing I say here is nothing they don't already know. And since this is MY shit..I can do dat! ;) I am hoping to get out of the house this weekend. I am still working on MsThing and her burn. You see..for those of you that don't know...my poor sibling was attacked my some hot grease the other day and her face was burnt. She has been in pain all week. I would really like to see her, but understandibly (spelling?) she doesn't want to come if she is still in pain. GET WELL SIBLING! Sierra went on a field trip with her class today. Well..actually, one of the girls in her class has a birthday..so they are taking the class to the girls house for a swim party (unless it rains they will go to chuckie cheese). Okay..1 thing is Sierra's class is very small so I guess thats why they are able to do things like that. I WISH I would have been able to take a damn field trip to my friends house to swim!! YEAH RIGHT! Well..back to work for now! hope everyone has a great day!
Well last night wasn't so bad. I hung out with Nicole at her aunts house for a minute (long enough to make a few healthy plates to take home for later) ;). Then I went home and watched Fire & Ice.It's one of those BET original movies, it was cute. I got some laundry done and cleaned Sierra's room (without her help of course). *I dont know what happened with the color right here..we just gonna let it ride*
On my way into work this morning I had "back Tight" by Jaheim on repeat. I'm not sure why that song was moving me so much this morning. Something about it just made me feel good today *shrug*.
Interesting finding this morning: Yesterday when I got to work I forgot to mention in my blog about my "interesting find". You see, everyday at work during my cleaning routine. I always find something very interesting. yesterday it was weed (NOT MINE EITHER). I was dusting the counter and I found some lil weed droppings all over the place. I immediatley thought back to who was working the night before. Figures!! I call the girl and tell her. She was like "ooops" sorry it fell out of my purse! DOH! Good thing I was the person that opened the next day..anyone else would have told on her I'm sure. I don't give a damn. LMAO!
SO...today while I'm sweeping the front, chatting with my girl MsThing on the phone, I noticed a BULLET on the ground in front of the store. Now, the salon I work at is in a plaza, along with Bi-lo, Dollar General, Macon Beauty Supply, A karate spot, and a pizza place. The area around here is somewhat shady, but its also only about 1 mile or so from campus. I have no idea WHY there was an unused bullet outside my door. If I was a paranoid mafia princess I might think someone was sending my a message (lmao). All I know is that last night..someone was outside here..with a gun and they dropped a bullet. How do you do that? just walking and it falls out? nope. So I don't know folx!! any ideas??
Wednesday.. Well so far today is just like yesterday and the day before...BORING! I was supposed to go to court today for a speeing ticket. I couldn't get out of work so the clerk told me just to get there before 5. SO Im gonna have to run after work so I don't get caught out there like Quis last week. I don't need no damn warrant okay! I can't do jail. Not even for 1 damn minute. Yesterday after work I went home, did some laundry and hung out with the neighbors. I know you all are very envious of my event filled life. Well tonight I will have some real quiet time since Marquis has to work and Nicole is staying at her aunts house tonight. What will I do??? Damn I gotta sit here all day by myself at work. Then again tonight. I guess I will be sitting over with the neighbors again. Right now Im contemplating lunch. There is a pizza place right in this plaza but they dont open till when I get off.....
before I start saying anything more about Shawn ;) I guess I should update yall on how Quis and I ended up back together.
After we broke up last summer we didn't talk for awhile. Then he would come around once in awhile. It was all still very painful for both of us. Neither of us knew what we wanted or where we were going. I went home for Christmas to clear my head (it was a MUCH needed trip). Everytime I have gone home for the past 5 years Quis has been with me. So it felt good to have some time with my friends and family alone. I had a great time with my friends. Aside from the small fight I had with my sister everything else was great (see old posts for details).
While I was gone Quis stayed at my apt. to take care of our dogs. YES our dogs. We had some dogs when we lived in the country and when we were ready to move to athens (still the country..just not buckhead country) we couldnt bring them with us. LUCKY for us they were both pregnant so once they had the puppies we took 1 from each litter. And then about a year later we got another dog. So we have 3. And just like with kids..when we broke up we had to share.
ANYWAY, after I got back Quis and I started spending more time together. Including the trip he took with me and my family to Disneyworld. After that we spent more and more time. We soon decided to work it out. We had discussed moving to Orlando. Well more than discussed. He applied and go accepted to orlando Culinary Academy, but unfortunatley wasn't able to secure the funding to attend this year. So we have those plans on hold. Which is fine with me. We need time to get back adjusted and to get our finances situated before we make that move. We may end up just moving to Atlanta and him going to the school there. Even though thats not really what he wants. Im skurred of florida and their damn hurricanes!!! but I LOVED IT THERE! a friend of mine lives there and we spent time with her and her family..it was too much fun!! (thanx KB).
So that brings us to now. Things are going good. A few hiccups along the way but nothing I cant deal with. My main focus right now is Sierra and preparing for puberty *sigh* thats gonna be plenty to keep me stressed out!
I hope that answered your questions Sunshine ;)
Now back to Shawn...LMAO!! Just so yall understand. This is not a situation where I have any intention to cheat on Marquis. Shawn and I just hold a very speical place in each others hearts and Im sure no one can deny that its nice to have someone like that somewhere in your life. He means alot to me and Im not ashamed of that. In fact, I told Quis about the email. And he knows about me and Shawn (and the baby daddy question). The only time Shawn and I can be a problem is when we are left alone together...and that doesnt happen much since I live in GA and he is way up north. Although I did think about kidnapping him at Christmas (hahah sunshine) I coulda snuck that cute f*cker back here!! MsThing I will make sure to get some pictures together so you can see Shawn and the resemblance. Its not as strong as it used to be, but you can still see it.
Okay YES I am excited...yall just don't know what this lil thang does to me!!! he has the best voice too..makes me tremble!! when we first met he used to sing Jodeci all the time..make me MELT! DO YOU HEAR ME????
"I am so glad I was able to contact you , I thought you forgot about me! I'm so glad Sierra is doing so well. We really need to make arrangements to see each other I don't care how far away we are from each other we made this choice a long time ago to never loose each other no matter how are lives changed. I will definitely stay stay in touch w/ you. I miss you MUCH. be good & take care. "
This was his response when I asked him if it was him...the one and only!
"Yes we met in ithaca in the summer of 89, where we feel in love, had a child!"
he has some issues as you can see....but either way..he has found me again!!! Kim swears that fool is Sierras dad. TRUST ME...if I could have blamed Shawn and felt good about the lie..I would have. I would much rather have him than the mofo in prison for 25-life. But I didn't see any point in lying. I was 6 months pregnant when Steve was arrested. SO I could have played it off VERY easily. Sometimes I think I should have....Im just not shady like that!! Oh well!
Okay so here is the scoop. I received an email today with the subject being "Remember me?". Normally I don't open anything that looks weird..but the name..it is SOOOOO familiar. Why is the name so familiar...because it says Shawn Golden (Sunshine...you know ALL about this).
I almost fell to the floor when I saw the name. Shawn is a VERY old friend of mine. We go WAAAAAAAAY back. Before Sierra was born. In fact I was 17 when I met Shawn. We have had a very special relationship ever since. He is the guy that no matter what, when, why or how whenever you see each other IT'S ON!!! I could go into all the different situations that have brought us together. But it would take forever. Anyone that knows me really well knows about Shawn.
If you were to ask my best friend she would tell you he is Sierra's father. She will NEVER let that go. I wont deny that Sierra and Shawn do favor each other. And the time is right. Sierra's father and I had broke up. And once again I found myself back with Shawn. However, Steve and I weren't really done and we did mess around a few more times. Anyhoo, Steve is Sierra's father, but that never stopped Shawn from being there for me. He will tell you she is his too. Thats just how we are.
Everytime I go back home someone makes sure to tell him I'm there. And somehow we always run into each other. Which brings me to this past Christmas. Quis and I weren't together. Me and my girls went to a party and (you guessed it) there was Shawn. We danced togther all night. Later that night he came and picked me up from Kim's house so we could hang out.
He asked me for my email. I didn't really expect to hear from him. We don;t really keep in touch. We just know how to find each other. Ya know?? Anyway, I don't know if this email is from MY Shawn..or some random Shawn impersonating MY Shawn.
This past weekend wasn't much different from last. I didn't do anything. LOL. That much hasn't changed in my life since I blogged last. We had a mandatory meeting for work last night. basically to discuss all the upcoming specials on memberships and lotions. And the annual Miss Silver Sun USA bikini contest (we will talk about that again later) and our Christmas party (yes its already being planned). One thing about the people I work for..they like to party. Nothing wrong with that to me!! Im all about that.
Today is Monday so I am doing my usual Monday duties (okay a REALLY fly guy just passed my window..whew) anyhoo, Monday's mean main inventory, sales reports, employee average reports..blah blah! its a blast I tell ya!
The students are back. So hopefully that means some lotion sales for me.
Sorry that this is such a damn boring post *shrug*. Maybe if MsThing had come to visit me this weekend like she said she was gonna I would have more stuff to say...HMPH! ;) we will try that again next weekend.
Marquis mentioned wanted to have a party for his birthday. He wants to make it a combination of a halloween party and a welcome home party for Hawk (since he gets out of jail that month). I think back to the last time we had a birthday/halloween party for him (hmmm) that was the night we had the party at Sharon's house. Me and Sharon and her neighbor KAT. At the time I didnt have a problem with that KAT chick. We had a good time. Setting up decorations and all. That was in 2002. The very next year....in August. Marquis cheated on me with KAT. I guess you all know where Im going with this...
Needless to say..ANY party we have this year is gonna go down WAAAY different. First of all..it will NOT be at Keasley's house. He can grab all his DJ equipmet and bring it wherever!! We were not together last year for his borthday. So Im not sure what he did. I know I was in ATL.
Well anyway..its not till October so I refuse to worry about it now. Im sure it won't be a problem. I just couldn't help but have flasbacks. Flashbacks are a very dangerous thing..someone could get hurt from a flashback!!! watch out!
The nighborhood I used to live in (firewood street) we call it the wood ;) Anyway, like in every hood there is a neighborhood drunk. In the wood his name is Jim Dandy. Anyway, Jim always has something to say about something. Why did this fool decide he was gonna start calling me ALMIGHTY WHITEY!! do you understand??? yall know that once you get a name in the hood..its on! EVERYONE heard this mofo say that! *sigh* How will I ever shake that???
Anyway, I still love Jim Dandy...for all the drunkness. The Wood wouldn't be the same without him.
I am ALL too excited about the new set up in blogger (well its new to ME anyway) Im gonna be a posting fool yall!!
Okay..no time for all the Welcome Back ShelDawg crap. I'm herre! and in full force!
Let's start right into the shyt why don't we??? alrighty then....
I finally got a job (BOO) it's not at all what I was looking for, but I'm gettin paid (if thats what they call it) so I guess I won't complain. Actually, yes I will!!! COMPLAIN COMPLAIN COMPLAIN!!!! I spent so much time concentrating on our move to Orlando I forgot about how my life frequently takes turns and didn't think that maybe plans would fall thru. SO then I had to search in Athens again. I was working breifly at DialAmerica. Its sort of a telemarketing gig but its an inbound center so I didn't have to harrass anyone. We took calls for Bank of America and people wanted to apply for credit cards.
The problem with that job was if call volumes were low you got sent home. SO when I was supposed to work a 30 hour week I would actually only work like 10-15 hours.
So now I am a manager at a tanning salon. *lame* I think this is what my girl sunshine was doing like 10 years ago. Oh well!!!
Now I am just gonna skip to last night since I caught yall up a lil bit. I have been gone to long to talk about all the shyt that has happened. Basically Marquis and I are back together. SIerra just started 4th grade. And its raining like hell in North Georgia right now..okay..good!
Last night Marquis picked me up from work. We were on our way home when a motorcycle cop pulled him over for speeding. Before you know it 5 more cop cars pulled up. They arrested Marquis for driving on a suspended license. *sigh* okay #1 why so many cops???? I mean okay they needed 1 car to transport his ass to the station..cool. But why all the others? They were treating BOTh of us like straight criminals. I am SO SURE there was better things for those mofo's to be doing. Come to find out. He had paid this ticket that they supposedly suspeded his license for 2YEARS AGO!!! but they have his name spelled wrong. I'm not sure why that made a difference since they had the license number right, but either way his damn bond was $2000.
SO I had to call his momma and them. And the bondsman (who was rather good looking if I do say so myself). We were able to get him out after many hours. SO it was a long night.
I don't know if yall remeber me talking about my friends JJ and Candy. Im sure I had some cool code name for them but I cant remember so anyway..JJ's mom had lung cancer and contracted some type of infection. About a month ago she went to the hospital and has spent the last month in ICU on life support. JJ had to make the difficult decision to take her of life support last friday. Not that there is ever a good time for something like to happen. But MiSS Candy is also 6 months pregnant right now. SO its very sad that she will not know her grandchild. Marilyn (thats his mom) was also our neighbor. We all live in duplexes in a culdesac. She was always cooking for everyone (including our other neighbor Sabrina). We will all miss her very much! I remember her sitting in her room with her window open so she could see everything that was going on in the circle. One day she yelled out the window to JJ "Boy you betta get over here before I pull out the belt" that shyt was tOO damn funny!! JJ is 28 still being threatened by the belt!! too much!!
Anyway, its great to be back..if anyone is reading!!! LMAO!!
Actually I was almost threatened by my girl MsThing!!! for a lil girl she can be very mean and bossy!!! hahahhahahahah- ANGRY UGLY GIRL!!!!